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LookingForAdvice wrote:

Hi, guys —

I'm a male Catholic and I've got a big problem. One boy fell in love with me. He's 19 and I'm 22.

I don't know what to do.

  • an You please help me with this?

Thank you and God Bless!


  { I'm a young Catholic man and another [guy|classmate] has fell in love with me. }

Paul replied:

Dear LookingForAdvice,

As a Catholic what I hear you saying is that some 19 year-old guy has disordered feelings for you.

If you are wondering what to say to him about it, that takes prudence and depends on a lot of factors. One thing you can never do is indicate to him that his feelings are normal or that acting on them is natural.

Homosexual acts are gravely unnatural and freely performing them is a grave sin. If appropriate, lead him to this web site:



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